Shadow Work- Why it is important and How You Can Start to do it.

Whether we want to admit it or not, we all have a hidden side.

I remember when I lost it all and felt like I had hit rock bottom. It could have been easy for me to blame others and to not look at the part I played in what was then, one of the lowest moments of my life.

What I did know, though, is that if I didn’t want to get stuck in th pain and negativity, then I needed to confront myself to help me learn about why I ended up where I was and learn what I could do about it.

I never want to experience life like that again.

On the surface, I felt like I had been a good person and done everything right but as I dug deeper, I realised that I was harboring deeper traits that didn’t serve me along with buried pain and that they were stopping me from connecting with true happiness and the life that I truly desired. 

I had to go deeper into my subconscious to uncover deeper patterns and beliefs. I had to be honest about the internal struggles that I hid from everyone else… including myself,

If I didn’t do this, I wouldn’t have been able to connect to a more purpose filled, abundant life.The life I live now.

This powerful work is called Shadow Work.

Shadow Work is the work you do on yourself to examine and heal the deep subconscious layers that may be darker aspects of who you are but don’t serve you positively.

Clues that you may need shadow work can manifest in several ways. For instance, in your relationship it can show up as being overly independent or codependent. Other clues that shadow work is needed is feelings of sadness or insecurity or having a victimhood mentality. You may also have a problem with anger.

And… worst of all… it can cause you to settle for less than you deserve in life because it can contribute to feelings of being stagnant, unmotivated, or just overall broken.

Just like I was able to overcome this, you can too.

I help clients confront their dark feelings (shadow) by a variety of systems within my proven private coaching framework such as

Teaching them to recognize the internal crap that must be dealt with in order to create big, positive shifts in life

This is very introspective and powerful so I walk them through this every step of the way because it is emotional but it leads you to get closer to the clean slate that you need to create a more fulfilling life.

It works because you are able to recognize patterns and behaviors that don't serve you and move forward in life more connected to your desired self with more self awareness.

It can be hard to see a way forward when you feel discouraged or stuck so but if you want to start doing this for yourself, I recommend you start with a combination of journaling and meditation,

I promise you there is a way out!

If you want help and support to guide you through your journey into shadow work then check out my 12 week hybrid Private coaching program. 

I have opened up 5 slots and you are able to start immediately. 

This time around, I am offering an extended payment plan to make it more affordable for you. 

My private coaching is by application only.

To apply and get started right away, follow this link

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So I have some good news and bad news to share with you but first I want you to imagine this...

What if you could finally discover and start to eliminate the things that keep you blocked and stuck in negative patterns?

What if I told you there was a system that could help you deep dive into your subconscious and do some work on what is buried deep inside that is holding you back?

Would you like to learn proven ways to rewrite your future and script and create the life you want for yourself?

Or maybe you need help learning what you want 

Did you know that you could also discover your life purpose and discover what spiritual tools will work for you?

This is very powerful and this is the good news!

You can. You can have the life that you want, the life you desire.

I am opening up the doors again for private coaching and I have slots available to start immediately. 

So if you are

• Motivated to change in life and want to feel unstuck

• Follow a system that has been proven to get results

• Willing to look at the root cause of any issues to gain clarity and understanding

• Committed to do the work to rise above your issues and problems and show up ready to do the work

• Open to spiritual tools and open to confronting things head on 

• Ready to once and for all take control of your life

This program is for you

Get ready to overcome the subconscious parts of your brain that has been programmed to have you believe that you aren't allowed to have more and be more.

Get ready to move past the limited thinking that you have to settle for the life you have now.

Your soul is calling out for a life that is full of opportunity and abundance

You deserve to experience that you can live an aligned life, and that life can be good.

That was only part of the good news.... I have some more for you

I now have an extended payment plan. Maybe you wanted to have private coaching but you may not have been able to afford it. I know that once you finish our 12 weeks together, abundance can start pouring in so this time around, I am offering an extended payment plan to spread your investment in coaching over 6 months to make it more affordable for you. 

Plus, sign up by May 19 and receive a special bonus.

Here's the bad news.... I currently only have 5 slots available right now. 

These will go fast, so if you would like to secure your spot & book your coaching slots so that we can get started immediately, follow the link below to learn more.

Why your spiritual routine is not working and what to do about it

A lot of my clients come to me frustrated because they feel stuck in life and feel, specifically, like their spiritual routine is not working. Here is the answer to why your spiritual routine isn't working and what to do about it. If you would like to talk to me more about private coaching, please apply below.

Full Moon in Scorpio May 2020

In this video I go over the astrology and the tarot of the 2020 Full Moon in Scorpio that just occured on May 7 , 2020. In the video, I mentioned a free intuition class.

You can get it here:

The One Thing You Need to Know to Move Forward in Life

People are so scared to make a decision.

There I said it.

Part of having conviction and getting what you want out of life is choosing. It can be A or it can be B…. one only knows what will happen but what I know for damn sure is that not choosing one or the other means you are stagnant. It means you aren’t doing anything or going anywhere in life. It means you get to waste another second, minute, day, month, year, stuck in the same place that you keep promising yourself you wouldn’t be in or won’t tolerate any longer.

The place that makes you unhappy.

The place where you are not being true to yourself and dishonoring that little voice inside of you telling you that you know damn well you ain’t doing what you are supposed to be doing.

Yes, I am being harsh, but I care about you and I’m fed up so we need to talk. The video I put out yesterday was much nicer but since you found me here in my sacred space, I am keeping this real.

I have been noticing a pattern with my clients and my FB group… Lots of people come to me when they have a question about making a decision and freak out, and decisions are scary right? And they can throw you out of your comfort zone, but at the end of the day, RARELY is making the decision as scary or risky as you build it up to be?

Consider this…

Could you just secretly finding comfort in staying stuck because at least you know the outcome of that, even if it is being stuck in the same shitty place that you know you don’t want to be in?

I know it’s scary to try new things and that fear makes it seem like every dang thing is life or death due to that irrational fear or I know how easy it is for you to hype something up in your head and that you can sometimes make that seem like it is the only decision that you'll ever make in your life around that subject.

I want to share one of the most important things that I learned early in life that has kept me moving forward thru the good and the bad. Thru small choices and big ones.

You don’t need any special skills, or anything special or out of the ordinary that you would never be able to do.

The one thing that really helped me move forward in life is to try new things. I never really had clarity about a lot of things that I have ever done in my life but what I did know is that there was opportunity in gaining different and new experiences.

And so even though there were things in my life that I didn't know if I would like or not…I never knew if they would turn out well or if I would fail or maybe… here’s an option… i would be successful. The one thing that I did understand, very early on was that if I tried something and it didn't work, yes, I might have to eat it. Yes, I might have to be a little bit embarrassed. Any of those things might occur, I might not get the outcome or the goal that I wanted. But because I understand the value of getting all I can get out of a life experience (while also giving all I can), I knew I would still gain something valuable, some skill that was going to help me.

I have had many experiences that I shared it that latest video and at the end of the day, did I know that I was going to be successful? No, when I went from totally different career paths, almost every turn that I made that I didn't know what I was doing? No. Was I out of my comfort zone? Yes. Was I scared? Yes. Did I know if I would like it? No.

But Here is the secret… nothing was permanent. Even if I spent 2-3-4 years in a situation that led to something that may have been not the result that I desired. What I understood and what I need you to understand is that the average human being lives between 70 and 80 years. So, you have a whole lifespan that you can you try new things and keep evolving, learning, growing, and in every step of the way.

What I can say is that even if I didn't know how my decisions were going to turn out or even if I didn't know if it was the right decision for me, when I was able to see that there was opportunity…there was a skill that I would learn no matter what the outcome was… to learn to trust that sometimes the bigger manifestations of what you want come in the most unusual circumstances…Usually the pieces all fit together, they piggyback off of each other even if they don’t seem like they do.

It’s like a choose your own adventure book but if you are stuck on the same page and refuse to make a decision based off fear, or doubt, or anxiety… guess what, you never get to turn that page and realize the potential that may lie behind the simple action of making a choice.

Sometimes you can’t predict how the doors open for you in the next phase of your life or how everything will play out but it will all fit together based on your intentions. . By not deciding, you never know and never experience the true heights that you could reach in life. Being scared or hemming and hawing about making a decision or being afraid to try new things or not doing the things you know you need to do.

How is that living?

So don't put so much weight on a decision that you are making in the moment thinking that you can't ever change your mind. We are allowed as human beings to evolve to change and to grow. That's normal. Don't back yourself in a corner. If you ain’t dead, you can always change your mind. That is something no one can take away from you. Fight for that right as much as you get fired up about other stuff.

if you feel like you're at a point where you do need to make a decision and you feel like you're having some difficulty… even though it's not permanent and it could change at any time …know this.

You shouldn't feel bad if something changes or doesn't turn out the way you want and just do SOMETHING ALREADY!

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If you are ready to move forward in life but you feel like you need a little help. Let’s talk. It’s what I do. I am passionate about helping you release the past, move past blocks and obstacles, and start learning how you can combine your intuition and your intellect to continuously evolve and realize your highest potential. I have private coaching slots open and I would love for us to speak and see if we are a good match to work together. So if you are ready to take the leap, I am ready to meet you where you are and help you move forward. I take new clients by application only. Click here or hit the button below to apply.

Your Decisions Don't Have to Be Permanent- How to make better decisions

Making decisions can be hard, especially if they are out of our comfort zone. Part of the problem when making a tough decision is acting like, in most instances, that choice is permanent even when it's not. We as humans grow and evolve and as we do, we may outgrow our choices. In this video I am discussing some things that you could consider when trying to make decisions.

Linked below is some of my other content that can help you make better decisions with clarity. I also have a free 5 day class that can help you get more connected with yourself and your vision and that will help you make better decisions.

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WHAT NEXT:

○ Make better decisions with this one question - https://www.yashicasintuition.com/blog/2018/3/25/one-simple-question-that-you-can-ask-yourself-to-help-you-make-decisions

○ Make better decisions with this one question- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkzmQdEiD14

How to Change When You Don't Know How

In my practice, when I am coaching clients, they often come to me after they have tried everything in their power to change and aren't getting anywhere. When I start speaking to them to uncover the layers, I find that they usually try a lot of things in one category but fail to try things in another category. To level up in life you need two types of actions. In this video I teach you what they are so you can learn how to change when you don't know how.

If you still feel like you know deep inside that you are unhappy and want to change, but need help moving forward because you don’t feel like you are getting anywhere on your own. I have private coaching slots open. In our time together we can work on getting you unstuck and moving in the right direction.

How to Use Sexual Energy for More Powerful Manifestations

Today, I may want to touch on a topic that’s taboo even though it really shouldn’t be. And because it is, there is a powerful, life energy that you could use to change your life. Literally!

If this topic makes you uncomfortable, you should leave now.

I want to talk to you about Sexual Energy. You know it. It can be intentional. That inner desire you feel when you lock eyes with someone that sparks an unexplained and sometimes uncontrollable arousal. That feeling that sneaks up on you when you are alone and you least expect it. Society has a common word for it…. Feeling horny… but it is something much more than that and can be channeled into an energy that is powerful for manifesting.

See this energy, when it builds up, can either be ignored (difficult to do), which can lead to frustration, it can be released through the act of sex or orgasm on the material plane, or you can channel it to help you attract your wildest desires by releasing it through a more high dimension. This is something that you may hear called Sexual Transmutation. Some of the most powerful people in the world are using this energy. If you have ever read Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill…. There is a whole chapter devoted to this… and you KNOW this book is a staple for personal growth and development.

In relation to spirituality, on a simplistic level, let’s think of your seven chakras. This energy starts in your sacral chakra and it can stay there, be released through sex, or you can learn how to push that energy up into higher chakras to make them more powerful. This in turn makes you more powerful than when you release it through a sexual act.

I believe you can channel Sexual Energy to a higher cause in one of two ways. If you decide to release it via a sexual act, as you are building up towards orgasm, you can visualize what you are trying to manifest. I like to say that right at orgasm, you can really see yourself having what you want. 

A second way you can use this energy is simple. When you want to manifest something in your life, you become more powerful when you are able to direct ALL your energy towards You can abstain from sexual acts. When that desire and Sexual Energy starts to crop up, you can channel this energy up to the next higher chakra, your chakra connected to personal power. By doing this, you strengthen your willpower and determination. You can then use this energy very powerfully by pouring yourself into that which you want to manifest.

As you can see, as you do this, this energy can become intense and gain momentum to where you feel like you are connected to your desires, you are able to have the confidence to speak your truth. Because you are living more authentically in your power, you are able to connect more with your intuition and as you embody more of who you are, you are more connected with the Divine. This inspires creation (among other things)…. Kundalini Energy. See how that works?

This is why, if you are connected with the essence of powerful Sexual Energy, many people believe you should abstain from sexual acts, especially with other people that you don’t have an special connection with. It is a powerful, sacred energy. I am, personally, sexually liberal but you can see how not controlling this power and whom you choose to share this power with can lead to negative consequences in your life. On the other hand, I want you to see that it can also be very powerful when you are sharing tantric-like Sexual Energy with someone that you are connected with. 

I hope that this has helped you look at your sexuality and Sexual energy in a different light and you now recognize a powerful life force that you have inside of yourself to help you become your higher self here on Earth and manifest your wildest dreams.

If you want to know more about sexual energy, you can also listen to this podcast episode

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Yashica is a spiritual consultant and life coach. She primarily works with motivated, professional women that want to end their self sabotage once and for all and start to experience a successful personal life that mirrors their professional life. You can learn more about her at  www.yashicasintuition.com

In Love vs Not in Love- How to tell the difference?

in love vs not in love. how to tell the difference

Love- a great interest and pleasure in something.

In Love- feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to (someone)

Co-Dependency- excessive emotional or psychological reliance on a partner

Traumatic Bonding- the misuse of fear, excitement, sexual feelings, and sexual physiology to entangle another person

I want to see you win and attract the love that you desire. If you are getting stuck in patterns and you need help, I have slots open in May for 1:1 private coaching.... follow the link in my bio for coaching or go here

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WHAT NEXT:

○ How to Change When You Feel Lost or Stuck - https://youtu.be/58n_B74SEJQ

○ How to Find Your Life's Purpose - https://youtu.be/0tYu5m4dSbw

○ How to Make Better Decisions - https://youtu.be/AkzmQdEiD14

○ How to Overcome Fear - https://youtu.be/ZYtIZiV5C7o

○ How to Be More Disciplined - https://youtu.be/z_RSjjI4RZU

○ Do This When you Feel Discouraged - https://youtu.be/25_1i9SXH8g